I'm not talking about it in terms of orthodoxy. "Following" could be following your interpretation, even if it's not orthodox.

Ugh, I feel like I'm not expressing myself well here. What annoys me is people who celebrate Christmas and then get offended when they hear religious Christmas carols instead of "Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer." If you celebrate another person's religious holiday, you can't expect them to strip out the religious meaning to make you comfortable. That's what I don't like about secularization.