At the same time, the answer isn't always that the offended person is right about the language of a group they're not part of being inherently offensive; misunderstandings sometimes occur in cross-cultural communication or communication across class lines.

That, I couldn't possibly disagree with.

Also, I haven't quite figured out what I mean by "objective moral evil," but I suspect it may be something radically different than what everyone else does, as I tend to be pretty darn PoMo in general. But I like to pull it out sometimes when I'm being emphatic.