Episode Reactions in Brief

[alixtii]

Dollhouse 2x04

Between this and "Epitaph One," I'm really falling in love with Adelle.

Sarah Jane Adventures 3x04

So, has anyone written K-9/Mr. Smith yet?

Comments

[alixtii.livejournal.com]

Well, the discussion was never about what the actions are--only what Adelle could plausibly perceive them to be without being wildly out of whack with reality. I'm not really up to discussing what any of the actions in Dollhouse really are in themselves--I end up trying to check my own privilege so much that I end up dizzy second-guessing myself.

[likeadeuce.livejournal.com]

Okay. . .

I really can't fathom how your own privilege could have anything to do with how you perceive the act of forcing a mentally ill woman's body into sexual slavery, but I guess I'm not intellectual enough.

[alixtii.livejournal.com]

Well, I think that's one of the ways--my privilege allows me to view it dispassionately as a philosophical problem in the abstract, and lose track of what's important and visceral, so that I get caught up in strange hypotheticals and lose track of the reality of women's bodies at stake if I'm not constantly checking myself (and even if I am, I'm not always doing a good enough job).

[likeadeuce.livejournal.com]

If you think that privilege checking requires you to refrain from making any kind of moral evaluation of a situation involving bad things happening women -- well, that's certainly your prerogative.

[alixtii.livejournal.com]

Well, things don't happen in a vacuum. You're female and I'm male. You're more upset than I am by what you saw in the episode. I can either assume you're being hysterical and overly emotional, or I re-examine my premises and figure out what I'm missing.

So no, I wouldn't say it requires me to refrain from making any kind of moral evaluation (nobody gets off that easy)--but like I said before, it does lead me to second-guess myself (which is extra work that isn't anybody responsibility but my own), and I don't think that's a bad thing.

And while I'm uncertain, it makes sense to me I shouldn't invest too much energy into a position that I might eventually decide to be anti-feminist.

[likeadeuce.livejournal.com]

I feel like you're using this privilege babble to avoid responding to what I'm talking about, honestly.

[alixtii.livejournal.com]

I have to admit that I feel like I have lost track of what you're talking about, ever since the conversation left discussing what Adelle's thought processes were.

[likeadeuce.livejournal.com]

Yeah, Alix, this is my fault.

[alixtii.livejournal.com]

I was afraid I ended up sounding like that.

I'm perfectly willing to accept responsibility for not understanding.

[likeadeuce.livejournal.com]

And you're really still not trying to understand what you're saying, you're still talking about yourself.