According to some discussion going on somewhere in a
metafandom-linked post, Graham Norton is gay. Who knew?
I suppose this is why Andrew pinged straight for me (or rather, didn't really ping at all) the entire first time I watched Buffy. (I watched season 7 first.)
I'm sure one could add something here about the privelege to not notice those types of semiotic markers, because I really, really don't.